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Southeast Asia nightlife glossary
66 words you'll hear in the first hour and nobody will explain. Bar slang, Thai, Tagalog, Khmer, Vietnamese and expat shorthand — in plain English, with no coyness and no smut.
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- 12Go
- The booking site for buses, trains, ferries and minivans across Southeast Asia — the easy way to book the Bangkok–Pattaya bus, a Manila–Angeles P2P bus, the Phnom Penh–Saigon bus or a Thai sleeper train from your phone before you fly. A small mark-up over the counter price in exchange for a confirmed seat in English.
See alsoAgodaGrabguides itineraries
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- 7-Eleven (and the sari-sari store)
- The convenience store on every corner in Thailand (over 15,000 of them) and the Philippines: cold beer, SIM cards, toiletries, toasted sandwiches, bill payment and air-conditioning. In Thailand alcohol is sold only 11:00–14:00 and 17:00–24:00 and not on Buddhist holy days. The Philippine sari-sari store is the family-run version, selling everything by the piece.
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- ACR I-CardPhilippines
- The Alien Certificate of Registration identity card the Philippine Bureau of Immigration issues to foreigners staying more than 59 days, about ₱3,500 as of 2026 and valid a year. You apply for it with your second tourist extension; without it you cannot get the Emigration Clearance Certificate needed to leave after six months. Routine, but budget the afternoon.
See alsoeTravelSRRV (Special Resident Retiree’s Visa)visasprices
- Agoda
- The Asia-focused hotel booking site, part of the Booking group, that consistently has the widest hotel inventory and often the best rates in Thailand, the Philippines, Cambodia and Vietnam. Read recent reviews for mentions of guests and joiner fees; for stays over a week, book three nights and then negotiate directly with the hotel.
See alsoGuest-friendlyJoiner feehotels
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- Baht bus (songthaew)Thailand
- Pattaya’s shared pickup-truck bus with two benches in the back — songthaew means “two rows”. They run fixed loops along Beach Road and Second Road and out to Jomtien and Naklua; hop on, press the buzzer, hop off and pay the driver ฿15–20 as of the April 2026 fare rise. Never ask “how much?” on a fixed route — that turns it into a chartered taxi.
See alsodestinations pattayapricesGrab
- Bar fine
- The fee a bar charges when a woman who works there leaves with a customer before her shift ends; it compensates the bar for losing her for the evening, and whether she goes is entirely her decision. The concept exists across Thailand, the Philippines and Cambodia under various names (Angeles City says “EWR”, early work release). This site does not publish bar-fine figures; ask in the bar and behave with respect.
See alsoGo-go barMamasanetiquetteguides how the bar scenes work
- BarangCambodia
- Khmer for a Westerner, from the French “français” — a relic of the colonial era that now covers any white foreigner. Neutral, used constantly in Phnom Penh. “Barang” also means “French”, which occasionally causes amusement when an American is asked how things are in Paris.
See alsoFarangcountries cambodia
- Beer bar
- An open-fronted bar with a counter, stools, cheap beer and hostesses who sit and chat if you buy them a drink. No stage, no cover, half the price of a go-go bar and the easiest place to understand the whole system in an hour. Soi 6 and Soi Buakhao in Pattaya and Perimeter Road in Angeles City are the textbook examples.
See alsoGo-go barLadies’ drink (LD)Happy hourdestinations pattaya soi 6destinations angeles city perimeter road
- BoltThailand
- The Estonian ride-hailing app that competes with Grab in Thailand and is often cheaper in Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket, sometimes by a third. Fewer drivers late at night and cash-only with some. Worth having as a second app in Thailand; it is not available in the Philippines or Cambodia.
- Bon Om Touk (Water Festival)Cambodia
- Cambodia’s three-day Water Festival in November marking the reversal of the Tonle Sap river, with boat races on the Phnom Penh riverfront and a million visitors from the provinces. Riverside hotels sell out, Street 136 is heaving, and the city grinds to a halt. In 2026 it falls around 23–25 November; check the official dates.
See alsoKhmer New Year (Chaul Chnam Thmey)eventsdestinations phnom penh street 104 and riverside
- Border bounceThailand
- The land version of a visa run: a minivan to the Cambodian or Malaysian border, walk out, walk back in with a new stamp, home by dinner. Increasingly refused at Thai land crossings for repeat bouncers, and pointless in the Philippines where extensions are easy. If you want to stay months, get the right visa instead.
- Bucket
- A metal ice bucket of five or six bottles of beer sold at a discount in beer bars, sports bars and pool parties across Thailand and the Philippines — the cheapest way to drink in a group. Not to be confused with the Thai “bucket” of spirits, mixer and straws sold at full-moon parties and on Khao San Road.
See alsoPool partyBeer bardestinations bangkok khao san road
- Buddhist holy days (alcohol bans)Thailand
- Makha Bucha (February), Visakha Bucha (May), Asalha Bucha and the start of Buddhist Lent (July), plus the end of Lent in October: Thai public holidays on which alcohol sales are banned for 24 hours, and since 2026 two consecutive days in July. Shops and most bars go dry; licensed entertainment venues and hotels may be exempt. Check the dates before a short trip.
See also7-Eleven (and the sari-sari store)eventsguides best time to visit
- BuleIndonesia
- Indonesian slang for a white foreigner, pronounced “boo-lay”. Ubiquitous in Bali and Jakarta, mostly neutral, sometimes teasing — “bule prices” are what you pay at the market until you learn to bargain. Malaysians across the strait say “mat salleh” for the same idea.
- Butterfly
- Bar slang for a customer who flits from woman to woman and bar to bar — “you butterfly!” said with a mock scowl. Also used of a woman who does the same with customers. Teasing rather than insulting; being called one on your third night is a rite of passage in Pattaya and Angeles alike.
See alsoLadies’ drink (LD)Go-go bar
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- Check bin (and “bill, please”)
- Thai-English for “the bill, please” — from “check” and “bill” — and the cup of paper chits that sits on your table recording every drink. Count the chits against what you drank before paying. Elsewhere: “bill, please” works everywhere in the Philippines; “som sot” in Khmer; “tinh tien” in Vietnamese; “minta bil” in Malay and Indonesian.
- Condo
- The apartment type foreigners can legally own in Thailand (up to 49% of a building) and the Philippines (40%), and the standard rental for long-stayers: furnished studios and one-beds from about $300 a month in Pattaya and Angeles City as of August 2026. Land and houses cannot be owned outright in either country, whatever a developer or girlfriend tells you.
See alsoSRRV (Special Resident Retiree’s Visa)Retirement visa (Thai Non-Immigrant O / O-A)guides expat living costsprices
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- E-visa
- A visa applied for and issued online before you travel. Cambodia’s costs $36 for 30 days (evisa.gov.kh); Vietnam’s costs $25 single or $50 multiple entry for 90 days (evisa.gov.vn); Indonesia sells an e-VOA. Use only the official government sites — look-alike agencies charge double for the same document.
- eTravelPhilippines
- The Philippines’ free online arrival and departure registration (etravel.gov.ph), filed within 72 hours before you fly; the QR code is checked at immigration and customs. Nothing to pay — any site asking for money is fake. The ACR I-Card, a different thing, is the ID card long-stayers need after 59 days in the country.
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- FarangThailand
- Thai for a white Westerner. Neutral in most mouths — “the farang at table four” — and occasionally pointed, depending on tone. You will hear it a hundred times a day in Pattaya. Do not take offence, and do not use it about yourself with a sneer; Thais find that odd.
- Freelancer
- A woman who works the nightlife independently rather than for a bar — met in a nightclub, on Beach Road in Pattaya, or at late-night spots. No bar, no mamasan, no bar fine. More flexible, less accountable: there is nobody to complain to if something goes wrong, so take more care with your valuables and use a hotel that holds ID.
See alsoGuest-friendlyGo-go bardestinations pattaya beach roadsafety
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- Go-go bar
- A bar with a stage where dancers in bikinis or less perform in rotation while customers drink and, if they like, buy a ladies’ drink to talk to someone. No cover charge — the drink price is the entry fee. Walking Street in Pattaya, Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy in Bangkok, and Walking Street in Angeles City are the big concentrations.
See alsoLadies’ drink (LD)MamasanBeer bardestinations pattaya walking streetdestinations bangkok nana plazadestinations angeles city walking street
- Grab
- Southeast Asia’s ride-hailing app — the regional Uber — working in every city in this guide except that Phnom Penh also uses PassApp. Fixed fares, no haggling, cars or motorbikes, card or cash. Install it and register before you fly; it is the single most useful app on the trip, and GrabFood is its delivery arm.
See alsoGrabFoodPassAppBoltMotorbike taxi (win / xe om / ojek)sim cards and wifi
- GrabFood
- Grab’s food-delivery service, working in every city in this guide: anything from pad thai to a burger to a 7-Eleven run, delivered to the hotel lobby for a dollar or two in fees. Foodpanda competes in Thailand and the Philippines. The hangover morning’s best friend.
- Guest-friendly
- A hotel that lets you bring an unregistered adult guest to your room without refusing her at the desk or charging a joiner fee; reception usually holds her ID card while she is there, for everyone’s protection. Most budget and mid-range hotels near the scene are; some international chains and resorts are not. Policies change, so we hedge every listing.
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- Happy hour
- Discounted drinks for a set window, usually mid-afternoon to early evening, when beer bars knock a third off and the hostesses have time to talk. In Pattaya and Angeles City it is the cheapest and most relaxed way to meet people; in Bangkok and KL rooftop bars it is the only affordable way in. Each bar sets its own hours.
- Holy Week (Semana Santa)Philippines
- The week before Easter in the Catholic Philippines, when the country effectively shuts: Maundy Thursday and Good Friday are dry public holidays in most cities, bars close or go quiet, malls shut, and everyone travels to the provinces. In 2027 it runs 21–28 March. Do not book a short trip to Angeles or Manila across it.
- Hostess bar
- A regular-looking bar where the women on staff sit and drink with customers for ladies’ drinks rather than dancing on a stage. The standard format in Phnom Penh (Street 136, Street 104, Street 51) and Saigon (Le Thanh Ton), and common in Manila. Quieter and more conversational than a go-go bar; the etiquette is identical.
See alsoLadies’ drink (LD)KTVdestinations phnom penh street 136destinations ho chi minh city little tokyo le thanh ton
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- JeepneyPhilippines
- The Philippines’ iconic, garishly painted shared minibus, originally built from American WWII jeeps, running fixed routes for a few pesos. Board at the back, pass your fare forward, say “para” to stop. Cheap and fun once; impractical with luggage or after dark. Modernization programs are slowly replacing the old ones.
- Joiner fee
- An extra-person charge some hotels add when an unregistered adult guest stays in your room, typically $10–30 where it exists as of August 2026, often disguised as an “extra breakfast”. Most hotels near the bar streets of Pattaya, Angeles City and Phnom Penh charge nothing. Ask at booking and again at check-in.
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- KanoPhilippines
- Filipino slang for a Westerner, short for “Amerikano” — any white foreigner is a kano regardless of passport. Friendly and casual; “Hey kano!” from a tricycle driver is an invitation, not an insult. The polite word is “foreigner”; the affectionate one from a girlfriend is “my kano”.
See alsoFarangguides culture and respectcountries philippines
- Khmer New Year (Chaul Chnam Thmey)Cambodia
- Cambodia’s three-day New Year in mid-April (14–16 April 2027), when Phnom Penh empties as everyone goes home to the provinces. Bars stay open with skeleton staff and the riverfront has water fights and talcum powder, Thai-style. A quiet time to visit rather than a lively one; Siem Reap is where the party is.
See alsoBon Om Touk (Water Festival)Songkraneventsdestinations phnom penh
- KTV
- Karaoke television — private-room karaoke, usually Korean-, Japanese- or Chinese-run, found in Manila, Cebu, Angeles City’s Korea Town, Saigon and Phnom Penh. You rent a room by the hour, order drinks and snacks, and hostesses may join for a per-hour fee plus ladies’ drinks. Bills climb fast; agree the rates before the first song.
See alsoHostess barLadies’ drink (LD)destinations angeles city friendship highway korea townprices
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- Ladies’ drink (LD)
- The drink you buy for a hostess or dancer so she can sit and talk with you. It costs more than your beer — typically $4–8 across the region as of August 2026 — and the mark-up is her commission, which is how she earns. You are never obliged to buy one, but if she stays at your table she will expect one. Prices by city are on the prices page.
See alsoGo-go barBeer barMamasanpricesguides how the bar scenes work
- Ladyboy (kathoey)
- The common English term in Thailand and the Philippines for a transgender woman; “kathoey” in Thai. Ladyboys work openly in the nightlife of Pattaya, Bangkok and Angeles, some bars are entirely ladyboy-staffed and clearly signed, and most are upfront if asked politely. Be respectful; it costs nothing and rudeness here ends badly.
- Loy KrathongThailand
- Thailand’s festival of lights on the full moon of the twelfth lunar month (25 November 2026), when people float candle-lit krathongs on rivers and the sea to let go of the year’s bad luck. Pattaya’s beach and Jomtien fill with couples and families; it is the most romantic night of the Thai calendar and an ideal date.
- LTR visa (Long-Term Resident)Thailand
- Thailand’s ten-year visa for higher earners, launched 2022 and liberalized since. The “Wealthy Pensioner” track needs age 50 plus $80,000 a year in passive income (or $40,000 plus a $250,000 Thai investment); benefits include one annual report instead of 90-day ones, fast-track immigration and a tax exemption on foreign income. Applied for through the Board of Investment.
See alsoRetirement visa (Thai Non-Immigrant O / O-A)guides retiring in southeast asiavisas
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- Mai pen raiThailand
- Thai for “never mind”, “no problem”, “it doesn’t matter” — the all-purpose smoothing phrase for spilled beer, late taxis and small social bumps. Used sincerely, it is the national good grace; used after a genuine problem, it can mean the conversation is over. Knowing which is which takes a few trips.
See alsoSabai (sabai sabai)“Up to you”guides culture and respect
- Mamasan
- The woman who runs the floor of a go-go or hostess bar: she manages the women, seats customers, makes introductions and settles disputes. Usually an older former dancer who has seen everything. Be polite to her and the whole bar gets easier; be rude and it gets very quiet around you. The term is used in Thailand, the Philippines, Cambodia and Vietnam alike.
See alsoPapasanGo-go barHostess barguides how the bar scenes work
- Mat SallehMalaysia · Vietnam
- Malaysian slang for a white Westerner, origin disputed (possibly “mad sailor”). Light-hearted and common in Kuala Lumpur; nobody means much by it. The Vietnamese equivalent is “Tây” (“Western”), as in “ông Tây”, the Western gentleman — which is what you will be called on Bui Vien Street.
See alsoBuleFarangcountries malaysiadestinations ho chi minh city bui vien street
- Motorbike taxi (win / xe om / ojek)
- A ride on the back of a motorbike, the fastest way through traffic in Bangkok (orange-vest “win” riders at every soi mouth, fares posted on a board), Saigon and Hanoi (“xe om”, now mostly via Grab), and Jakarta (“ojek”, via Grab or Gojek). Short hops cost a dollar or two. Wear the helmet they hand you.
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- NyepiIndonesia
- Bali’s Hindu Day of Silence (9 March 2027, per most calendars): for 24 hours from 06:00 the whole island shuts — airport closed, no traffic, no lights, no leaving your hotel, and hotel bars serve guests quietly behind drawn curtains. The night before brings the ogoh-ogoh monster parades. Remarkable once; a wasted day if you did not plan for it.
See alsoRamadaneventsdestinations bali
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- Overstay
- Remaining past the date stamped in your passport. Thailand fines ฿500 a day (capped at ฿20,000) and blacklists you for a year after 90 days; the Philippines charges monthly fees and penalties and can detain long overstayers; Cambodia charges $10 a day. Extensions are cheap and take an hour — there is no excuse.
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- Papasan
- The male equivalent of a mamasan — a floor manager who looks after the staff and the room, and often doubles as the bouncer. Less common than mamasans but you will meet them on Walking Street in both Pattaya and Angeles City. The same rule applies: a friendly word with him solves most problems before they start.
- PassAppCambodia
- Phnom Penh’s home-grown ride-hailing app, built around tuk-tuks and the little three-wheeled “rickshaws”. Metered fares in dollars, typically $1–3 across the center, cash to the driver. Grab works too, but PassApp usually has more tuk-tuks nearby. Both beat negotiating with a street driver outside a bar at 2am.
- Pool partyPhilippines
- The Angeles City afternoon institution: a hotel or rooftop pool with a DJ, buckets of beer, bikini contests and a crowd of women and visitors mixing in daylight. Entry is a few hundred pesos for men, often consumable, free for hotel guests. The easiest place on the strip to start a conversation sober.
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- RamadanIndonesia · Malaysia
- The Islamic fasting month (roughly 8 February to 9 March 2027), which matters in Muslim-majority Jakarta and Kuala Lumpur: many bars and clubs close or cut hours, alcohol is harder to find, live music stops, and the mood is subdued until the Eid holiday. Bali, being Hindu, is largely unaffected. Not the month for a first trip to either capital.
See alsoNyepieventsdestinations jakartadestinations kuala lumpur
- Retirement visa (Thai Non-Immigrant O / O-A)Thailand
- Thailand’s one-year renewable stay for foreigners aged 50 and over, requiring ฿800,000 in a Thai bank (seasoned two to three months) or ฿65,000 a month in income, or a combination. The O-A version is applied for at home and adds compulsory health insurance; the plain O is converted in-country. 90-day address reports apply. Pattaya’s Jomtien immigration office processes thousands a year.
See alsoLTR visa (Long-Term Resident)SRRV (Special Resident Retiree’s Visa)guides retiring in southeast asiavisas
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- Sabai (sabai sabai)Thailand
- Thai for comfortable, relaxed, content — the national ideal. “Sabai dee mai?” is “how are you?”; “sabai sabai” doubled means everything is easy and nobody is in a hurry, which describes an afternoon on Soi 6 precisely. Learn it, use it, and you are halfway to understanding the place.
See alsoMai pen rai“Up to you”guides language basics for dating
- Sin sodThailand
- The Thai bride price, paid by the groom to the bride’s family at the wedding and displayed on a tray for the guests; often returned, in whole or part, afterwards. Expected in a Thai-Thai marriage and negotiable for a foreigner — less for a woman who has been married or has children. Agree it calmly with the family, ideally with a Thai friend advising.
See alsoguides dating culture by countryguides culture and respectguides bringing her home k1 and cr1 visas
- SinulogPhilippines
- Cebu City’s enormous festival for the Santo Niño, climaxing in a grand street parade on the third Sunday of January (17 January 2027), with a week of street parties before it. Hotels sell out, Mango Square is rammed, and the city is at its friendliest and loudest. Book months ahead or avoid the week entirely.
- SoiThailand
- Thai for a side street or lane off a main road, numbered from the road it branches off — Sukhumvit Soi 11, Pattaya Soi 6, Soi Buakhao. Odd numbers run one side of the main road, even the other. Addresses are written “Soi 11, Sukhumvit Road”; taxi drivers know the soi number better than any business name.
See alsodestinations pattaya soi 6destinations bangkok sukhumvit soi 11Motorbike taxi (win / xe om / ojek)
- SongkranThailand
- Thai New Year, 13–15 April nationally, celebrated as a country-wide water fight. Pattaya runs its own “Wan Lai” on 19 April, so the city is wet for the best part of a week. Great fun once; a nuisance if you wanted a quiet trip. Alcohol sales continue, roads are dangerous, and phones die — bring a dry bag.
See alsoLoy Krathongeventsdestinations pattayaguides best time to visit
- SRRV (Special Resident Retiree’s Visa)Philippines
- The Philippines’ indefinite-stay retirement visa from the Philippine Retirement Authority, built around a US-dollar time deposit ($10,000–20,000 for pensioners over 50 under the classic scheme) that can later be converted into a condo or long lease. Multiple entry, no more extensions, ACR I-Card included. The rules and deposit tiers were revised in 2025–26; check the PRA site.
See alsoRetirement visa (Thai Non-Immigrant O / O-A)ACR I-CardCondoguides retiring in southeast asia
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- TampoPhilippines
- Filipino for the sulk: withdrawing affection or going quiet to signal hurt feelings rather than saying so outright, and expecting the other person to notice and make amends (“lambing”). It is a normal part of Filipino relationships, not a manipulation, and the fix is a gentle gesture, not an argument about being direct.
See also“Up to you”guides dating culture by countryguides language basics for dating
- TDAC (Thailand Digital Arrival Card)Thailand
- The free online arrival form every foreigner must file within 72 hours before landing in Thailand, replacing the old paper TM6 since May 2025. Takes ten minutes at tdac.immigration.go.th; immigration scans the QR code. The Philippines has the equivalent eTravel form, Cambodia an e-Arrival card and Malaysia the MDAC.
See alsoeTravelVisa exemptionvisas
- TetVietnam
- Vietnamese Lunar New Year (6 February 2027), the biggest holiday of the year: a week or more when shops, restaurants and many bars close, prices double, transport sells out and Saigon and Hanoi empty as people go home. Bui Vien keeps a few bars open for tourists. Avoid the week unless you have been invited to a family.
See alsoeventsdestinations ho chi minh citydestinations hanoi
- Tricycle (trike)Philippines
- The Philippine motorbike-and-sidecar taxi, the workhorse of Angeles City, Subic and provincial towns. Hail one anywhere, agree the fare before you get in (₱60–100 for a short hop around Fields Avenue as of August 2026), and expect a tourist rate above what locals pay. Not allowed inside Clark Freeport; Grab covers the gap.
- Tuk-tukThailand · Cambodia
- The three-wheeled motorized taxi of Thailand and Cambodia. In Bangkok it is a tourist trap to be negotiated hard or avoided; in Phnom Penh the modern Indian-made “rickshaw” tuk-tuks booked through PassApp or Grab are the standard way around town for $1–3 a ride. Agree the fare first if you hail one on the street.
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- Visa exemption
- Entry without a visa for a fixed number of days, stamped at the airport: 30 days in the Philippines, 90 in Malaysia and — as of August 2026 — 60 in Thailand, though the Thai Cabinet has approved a cut to 30 days pending Royal Gazette publication. Cambodia and Vietnam require a visa. Always check the current rule a week before you fly.
- Visa run
- Leaving a country and coming straight back to reset your permitted stay — flying Bangkok to Phnom Penh for a night, for instance, to get a fresh entry stamp. Tolerated for decades; now policed. Thailand’s 2026 rules limit visa-exempt entries to two per year and immigration officers can refuse anyone who looks like they are living on stamps.
- VOA (visa on arrival)
- A visa bought at the airport on landing. Cambodia’s tourist VOA is $30 cash with a passport photo; Indonesia’s is Rp500,000 (about $31) for 30 days, extendable once. Thailand’s VOA applies to other nationalities, not Americans, who use the exemption. Bring crisp US dollars; the desks do not take cards reliably.
See alsoE-visaVisa exemptionvisas
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- WaiThailand
- The Thai greeting: palms together at chest or chin height with a slight bow. Return a wai from an equal or elder; do not wai children, waitresses or bar staff (a nod and a smile is right), and do not wai with a beer in your hand. Thais forgive foreigners almost anything, but getting this roughly right earns real warmth.
See alsoSabai (sabai sabai)etiquetteguides culture and respect
- Walking Street
- The name of the main go-go bar strip in both Pattaya and Angeles City, which confuses every first-timer. Pattaya’s is a half-mile pedestrian street at the south end of Beach Road, open late into the night; Angeles City’s is the closed-to-traffic section of Fields Avenue in Balibago. Say which city you mean.
See alsoGo-go bardestinations pattaya walking streetdestinations angeles city walking street
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- “Same same (but different)”
- Thai-English for “similar” or “it’ll do” — and, with “but different”, a T-shirt slogan that sums up a lot of Southeast Asian pragmatism. Useful: “same same” as you point at a menu means you want what he is having. Heard from Bangkok to Saigon.
- “Up to you”
- The phrase you will hear most often from a Thai or Filipina when you ask what she would like to eat, do or drink. It is politeness, not indecision — putting the decision with the guest or the man — and the correct response is to decide, kindly. Asking “but what do YOU want?” three times just makes everyone uncomfortable.
See also“Same same (but different)”Sabai (sabai sabai)guides dating culture by country
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